Some of the children who involve great affection with their parent are faced depression. Young children may react to divorce by becoming more aggressive and uncooperative or withdrawing. Older children may feel deep sadness. Their schoolwork may suffer and behavior problems are common.
The study on divorce cases showed that the children of divorced parents showed more academic problems, psychological problems and behavioral problems than children whose parents remained married. For example, the students whose parents would later divorce performed less in academic than those students whose parents would stay together. They also showed more behavior problems in school than those students whose parents would stay together.
It is also seen that children of divorced parents were less likely to having a good relationship with their parents than those children whose parents would stay together. The children whose parents would divorce have not performed well in academic, the reason behind this is their parents would attend fewer school events, and were less likely to do things or discuss school-related issues with their children.
It is seen that divorce affects boys more than girls. The boys face behavioral problems in school during the initial stages and through the first two years after the divorce .Their academic performance is decreased. They often involve with drugs and alcohol. In case of girls they show depression over the divorce and changes taking place in their lives. Their academic performance is also decreased. They run with an older crowd and enter sexual activity earlier than those whose parents would stay together.
It is the responsibility of the parents that they prevent their child from this situation. They have to prevent themselves from the effect of divorce. Today the most of the children's are facing depression problem. When children feel depressed they may withdraw from their parents or loved ones. They may neglect their homework and involve in discontinue activities that once brought them pleasure. Their eating habits may change dramatically. To help your children encourage them to share their sadness as well as their anger with you or another responsible member of the family with whom they feel safe. Assure them that these feelings will decrease with the passes of time and help them till they seem to be feeling better.
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